Shady Husband Steals Wife's Money For Luxurious Massages When They're Expecting A Baby And Struggling To Make Ends Meet

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    Font - r/AmItheAsshole Posted by u/throwPricematter1 6 hours ago AITA for demanding my husband to pay me the $1000 dollars he spent behind my back?
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    Font - My husband (33) and I (31) used to have a 2 income home but in 2020 we've lost our home and one of our incomes (his). We moved into a smaller apartment, had to sell many things and give up most of our "costly" habits.
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    Font - My husband has an expensive habit of going to the spa for a weekly massage session. we live in an urban area so this stuff is ridiculously expensive. A single session is 250$, and he has to have it every week so that'd be nearly 1000 a month!. I offered him to have his session at a regular spa but no, he has to get it from that luxurious spa near the restaurant we used to go saying the lady who gives the massage is an expert and he's used to her.
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    Font - Problem is I'm the only income earner and I'm struggling to make ends meet. I'm also pregnant and need to save money to prepare a nursery. I told him to cut his sessions but he refused. I told him I won't be paying for them anymore and he said he'd get the money himself.
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    Font - Yesterday I checked and saw that he's been using my credit card for his sessions for a whole month and had maxed out completely. I found that out when I went shopping for baby essentials and the cashier said I had no money. I had to return everything then went home and went off on him. I told him he maxed my card out and made me look like an idiot at the store, he said he didn't tell me cause he knew I'd have an issue with it. I demanded he
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    Font - pay back the $1000 he spent but he refused, I yelled at him calling him irresponsible and he got upset and called me selfish and told me to stop playing victim and that this is affecting both of us since he's going to be a parent too and it's stressful for him and I keep dismissing his own needs as a human.
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    Font - I went upstairs and he went out. He started giving me silent but I kept demanding the money back. he said I shouldn't expect it back since we're married then my money is technically his and I should stop using his unemployement against him.
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    Rectangle - YanaYellow25 · 5 hr. ago · edited 5 hr. ago NTA. I do think this is what they call foreshadowing.
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    Font - No_Recogniti edited 2 hr. ago Partassipant [1] hr. ago Honey, he's using you. He thinks he can get by while having you do all the work. You know how I know? I would be willing to bet he's not using all his unemployment free time to clean the house or prepare for the baby, or to even take an online class to add to his resume. I know it's hard. You are supposed to be a team. But you are carrying the whole team yourself. And you are pregnant.
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    Rectangle - tractorchick · 6 hr. ago NTA...cancel the card, put the money you earn in your name only. Maybe instead of getting a luxurious massage, he should be applying for jobs? Like wtf. A baby is going to drain finances even more.
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    Rectangle - Tattycakes · 4 hr. ago The crazy always seems to kick off as soon as she's pregnant. Do all these men seriously think as soon as there's a baby that they can just do whatever the hell they want??
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    Font - teresajs · 6 hr. ago &@2 3 2 Prime Ministurd [556] NTA He stole from you to buy a luxury. Immediately cut him off from all access to your money and credit. Don't give him any money at all. And seriously reconsider living with him since he steals from you. Also, is there any chance that this "spa" treatment actually involves him paying for sex? Because there's something that feels off about all this...

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